Marketing Psychology – Don’t Be a Sucker
The old observation that there is nothing new under the sun is certainly true for marketing. There are so many shiny new toys that offer to help you succeed – books, ebooks, coaching programs, videos, newsletters, memberships – that it is enough to make your head swim. And none of them have anything really new to offer. I have realized, finally, that everything is covered in one of the best books of all time on marketing, even though it doesn’t claim to be about marketing. The book, Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, is about the techniques of persuasion that underlie all of the main aspects of marketing. I love this book because it cuts through a lot of crap, because it explains how the author, Dr. Robert Cialdini, discovered how to resist marketing hype, and because it is written by an old university colleague of mine. Just a personal bias there.
All You Need to Know
The six points of influence are listed in the figure below. These are widely available on many websites. What I want to point out here is that Dr. Cialdini not only outlined each of these and why they work, he also described how he had been a sucker for them and, more importantly, how he developed resistance to them. This is perhaps the best bonus that he could have included. It has helped me become more aware of when and how marketing is being thrown at me. See what I mean below.
Reciprocity: I’ll do something for you or give you something for free if you give me something back. How about a free report if you just subscribe to my newsletter? That is the most common example of reciprocity on the internet. This one is easy to ‘resist’ if you really wish. Just subscribe, then get the whatever-is-free, then unsubscribe later.
Authority: People are more persuaded if they recognize the influencer’s authority. Celebrities are bought and/or invented for this purpose. This strategy is a name-dropper’s delight. It doesn’t take much to resist this strategy when you stop and think about how little value a celebrity endorsement provides for anything.
Social Proof: Testimonials, testimonials, testimonials! Please don’t ever be suckered by anyone’s testimonial. They are never bad. Heaven help you if you are persuaded by testimonials. This is such a strong component of marketing psychology that it is almost impossible to wade through the countless testimonials (i.e., “social proof”) that clutters sales pages.
Commitment & Consistency: The Encyclopedia Britannica used to be sold door to door. Each sales rep was taught to ask 22 questions, starting with simple ones that could only be answered with a ‘yes’. People have a strong tendency to stay consistent with such answers, even when the final question asks for the sale. Very difficult to resist this one. You have to be able to violate your own consistency to not buy the product or service after you have said ‘yes’ 21 times in a row.
Liking: People are more likely to be convinced by someone they like. This is why attractive or humorous sales people, or sales people who are similar to you in some significant way, are successful. Have you ever read someone’s business story about how they were broke and out of work, etc., etc.? The purpose for this story is to get you to feel an identity with that person. This is the seed of liking, and it is a powerful tool of persuasion. Just keep in mind that it may not be a true story and, even if it is, it doesn’t mean that the product or service will necessarily work for you. Sneaky, huh?
Scarcity: Deadlines, scarcity of inventory, limited time price – all these create a fear that if you don’t act now you won’t be able to get what you want. I can tell you right now that if you ever encounter a web page that says something like, “This page will never appear again, so you have only this one chance to buy [fill in the blank],” get off that page immediately. There is just so much B.S. I can tolerate! The fear of scarcity is one of the most overused and easy to resist of all the six points to persuasion. How to you have a limited supply of ebooks, for pete’s sake? (Yes, I’ve seen that claim.)
Keep these things in mind when you encounter any kind of sales page or advertisement. Your awareness will make you a better customer and a better businessperson.
All the best,
Dr. D





